Love like in a fairy tale… or not?

Тhe prince awakened the princess with a kiss. He struggled with dragons and witches to save his beloved. He found her on the shoe that was hers. Whatever they did, she and he always lived happily by the end of their days.

That was what is wrote in the tales. The prince always found his princess. The princess always found her prince. And they always lived in love and understanding. After the fairytales we

watched movies, read books, listen to love songs – and they all suggested that everyone had their mate. Everyone has a soul mate that one day will discover. That we live – in the hope that our man awaits us. It’s a matter of time to meet him … But nobody ever asked the question: If you do not have a soul mate? If nobody is waiting for you anywhere? Yes, it is not the dream scenario. For him, tales are not written. But he’s so damn possible. You may never meet your soul mate. You can live alone for the rest of your days. We are afraid to say these words out from fear that they will really happen. Because we will kill the hope. And if we kill the faith in love, what would we have then? We living for love ,right? Yet, in real life this tale exists – the prince and the princess never find themselves. It’s not fair, but who said life is fair. And here you realize that you are not prepared for the bad scenario. And the worst thing is to be unprepared for the worst. Having no soul mate is not scary, it’s not shameful, and you’re not the biggest loser. Maybe it’s just fate. Your life has assigned another mission. And it is to look for your soul mate elsewhere – among friends, in yourself, in experiences and moments, in things that make you feel alive. It’s hard, but you learn. You change your chip. You change the setting. You’re doing somehow. You no longer wait for anyone. There are no empty hopes. You stop asking, “When? Who? Why? Why to me?”. You seek love in its other forms and manifestations. Maybe you are your soul mate. Perhaps your tale is not like the others …

Having a mate is a good thing. To have no, however, is not a drama. You should not turn it into a drama. Because love still exists – it is a matter of inner awareness and feeling. And to find her, you do not need a prince or a princess. You need only yourself.

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